As the holiday season rapidly approaches it’s easy to forget about the most important person on your gift list--- you!

‘Tis the season of giving to your spouse, best friend or parent but what about a gift idea list for yourself? This month, I am gifting self-love and kindness. I often put others' needs before mine, but today marks the beginning of my Chanukah gift to myself---be kind to Caroline.

Every time a negative voice comes into my head regarding body image or productivity, I will acknowledge the thought and then simply reject it.

IF WE ARE NOT COMPASSIONATE TO OURSELVES THEN HOW DO WE EXPECT COMPASSION FROM THOSE AROUND US?

While many November/December magazine issues have their 10 top holiday picks here are mine--- and they are only for you:

1.    Get a massage

2.    Get a manicure

3.    Take an hour to exercise

4.    Eat a meal that is healthy and delicious (sitting and chewing)

5.    Meditate for 20 minutes for a week

6.    Keep a joy journal where every evening you write down 5 things that gave you joy that day

7.    Eat something indulgent and enjoy every single bite (guilt free)

8.    Take yourself on a date!

9.    Spend a few hours reading a wonderful book that brings you happiness when you think you should be doing something else instead

10.  Get acupuncture! 

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